Two stones. One unforgettable statement.
The Duet Collection is our modern take on the toi et moi ring. Each one pairs a bold square gemstone with a sleek marquise in a generous sterling silver setting, creating an architectural design you won't find anywhere else.
Striking, substantial and beautifully original, these are statement rings for people who love to stand out. Choose your colour below.
Choose your Duet
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Rhodolite Duet Ring: Rich raspberry red rhodolite garnet that shifts between rose, wine and plum as you move
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White Topaz Duet Ring: Brilliant, colourless white topaz with diamond-like sparkle
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Tanzanite Colour Quartz Duet Ring: Mesmerising violet blue quartz in the colour of tanzanite, at a far more accessible price
More stones are coming soon.
What is a toi et moi ring?
"Toi et moi" is French for "you and me". A toi et moi ring sets two gemstones side by side, symbolising two people, two moments or two sides of your story coming together. The style dates back centuries and is one of the most loved ring designs today.
The Duet gives it a modern twist. Instead of two matching stones, it pairs a square with a marquise, creating an asymmetric, sculptural look.
What makes the Duet different
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Architectural design: Clean geometric lines and an asymmetric silhouette that looks bold from every angle
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Lots of sterling silver: A substantial setting of about 13 g, with silver you can see from the sides and back
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Two gemstone shapes: A 10 x 10 mm square and a 10 x 4 mm marquise in every ring
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Made to be noticed: A true statement ring that turns any outfit into a look
How to choose your Duet
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For colour and warmth: Choose rhodolite garnet
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For sparkle and a diamond look: Choose white topaz
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For something rare-looking and dreamy: Choose tanzanite colour quartz
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For a matching pair: Stack two Duet rings on different fingers for a bold, collected look
How to wear your Duet
Wear it alone as a cocktail ring, or pair it with a slim silver band for a modern stack. It's made for dinners, celebrations and everyday moments when you want to feel a little more you. Many people wear toi et moi rings as promise rings or as a modern alternative to an engagement ring.
Why choose Desiderate
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Real gemstones: Every Duet ring is set with genuine gemstones, with any treatment clearly disclosed
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Sterling silver: Solid, polished and built to last
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Australian brand: Designed by Desiderate, an award-winning, female-led Australian jewellery business
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Easy to buy: Free delivery on orders over $100, with Afterpay and Zip available
FAQs
What is a toi et moi ring?
It's a ring with two gemstones set side by side. The name is French for "you and me", and the design symbolises two people or two moments coming together.
What makes the Duet ring unique?
Each Duet ring pairs two different shapes, a square and a marquise, in a bold, asymmetric sterling silver setting. That makes it more sculptural than a classic two-stone ring.
What gemstones are available?
Rhodolite garnet, white topaz and tanzanite colour quartz, with more stones coming soon.
Is the tanzanite colour quartz real tanzanite?
No. It's quartz in a beautiful tanzanite colour, giving you the violet blue look of tanzanite at a more affordable price.
Can a toi et moi ring be an engagement ring?
Yes. Toi et moi rings are a popular modern choice for engagements and promises. As these gemstones are softer than diamond, remove your ring for heavy work and the gym.
How heavy are the Duet rings?
Each ring weighs about 13 g, giving it a solid, high-quality feel.
What sizes are available?
Duet rings come in a range of numeric sizes. Check each ring for availability, and use our Size Guide to find your fit.